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I’m Joey Cope.

For the last decade, I’ve been drawn into the study of conflict and the path to reconciliation.  Actually the study part is pretty easy, for without conflict there’s very little to talk about.  All of history is punctuated with conflict — minor disagreements, friendly competitions, life-long antagonism, and lethal combat.  We spend the greater part of our waking hours navigating through conflict.

What has been missing for many of us has been the discovery of the path to reconciliation.  Conflict can be “solved” by mere avoidance on one side and complete annihilation of our enemies or of our selves — or perhaps both — on the other.  I’m convinced that the key to this comes from seeking the truths of the message of reconciliation and owning them as our ministry. 2 Corinthians 5.

Granted, I’m better at conflict resolution on some days than I am on others.  I was trained as a lawyer.  I enjoy the competition that advocacy brings with its strategy and positioning.  Yet, I am learning that its thrill is nothing compared to the rush that comes when two or more conflicted individuals ask God to join them in their conversations and peace breaks out!

I am blessed with the best job in the world.  As the Executive Director of Abilene Christian University’s Duncum Center for Conflict Resolution, I have a front row seat to view God in action.

As much as I have come to know about conflict and about peace, I learn something new every day.  I am no authority, simply a pilgrim on the path to reconciliation.

And then there’s Foster Dog . . .

Zoe, the Great Pyrenees – Siberian Husky – Wolf mix canine, who currently resides in my back yard –  came into our lives ten years ago when she was adopted by our son. A few years back, she came to live at our house when back yard space became an issue. We originally thought this was to be a temporary arrangement until a few health issues surfaced and we became attached to Zoe. About that time, I began expanding my FaceBook and Twitter worlds and I needed something to write about. And thus, Foster Dog was introduced to my friends. My friends have found her life to be much more interesting than mine and, thus, I’ve dedicated a fair amount of energy to sharing “her” thoughts and philosophy on a semi-regular basis. It’s all done for fun. I hope that you come to love her as much as we do.

 

Tweets from Joey & Foster Dog

Just Thoughts
  • Hope seen . . . slowly softens the crust of worry. Hope celebrated . . . melts worry away. Melted worry is the compost that feeds faith and destiny.

  • An abundant life is not one free from worry, but one filled with hope.

  • Have you ever been in a really big hurry?

    Have you ever been in a really big hurry  . . . and everything seems to go wrong?

    You drop your keys just as you get to the door. You leave your phone on the nightstand. You hit “reply to all” on the email that should have gone to one discreet individual. You can’t seem to hit the trash can with that one wad of paper. You find yourself face-to-face with the one person you don’t “really have time to deal with.”

    Frustration builds inside. Anger, dismay, and depression grow like grass in a flower bed. What can you do? What is the most effective action step for the moment.

    Slow down.

    That’s it. Slow down. Take a breath. Whisper a prayer. Hum a song.

    Slowing down allows tension to melt away. Slowing down allows your emotions to moderate. Slowing down allows you to gain control . . . by easing your grip.

    So, slow down . . .

  • “Constantly Pleasant.”

    That’s how she was described. Not a person attending the memorial service would have disagreed.

    As I sat and listened to the accomplishments of this remarkable person, I was somewhat awestruck by the thought that I had been blessed to know an individual who touched so many and did so much . . . while being constantly pleasant.

    What if I could become constantly pleasant? What would that change? How would I change?

    Thanks, Colleen. For being constantly pleasant. It’s just one of many ways that God shone through you.

  • If you’ll just let go, your hands will be free to  . . .

    • comfort a friend in pain
    • carry a stranger’s burden
    • steady yourself when your world is rocked
    • graciously accept a gift
    • smooth the wrinkles from the fabric of life

    If you’ll let go . . . empty your hands of things and your heart of worries . . . you’ll be delighted with what you find in those sacred hollows.

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