So now I can’t get the song out of my head.
Have you ever wondered what changes Michael Jackson made after he sang his #1 hit song, Man in the Mirror?
The song, written by Glen Ballard and Siedah Garrett, shares the experience of looking around, seeing needs, and then making the commitment to bring change. The song speaks of hungry children, the homeless, and the heartbroken. It is a call to action.
Take a look at yourself and make the change
You gotta get it right, while you got the time
Cause when you close your heart
Then you close your mind.
I’m not trying to start a debate over Michael Jackson’s life or lifestyle. A little research reveals that he did, in fact, make some significant charitable contributions. Yet, our glimpse into his latter years showed an increasingly troubled man who surrounded himself with those who wanted to take from him. I wonder how differently things would have been had he chosen to spend time with those who truly needed his help.
The man in the mirror image is a fitting one. Occasionally I’ll look through family albums or videos and steal a glance of my past. Invariably I’ll ask myself, “Why in the world would I choose to dress that way?” or “Why didn’t anyone bother to tell me how bad that hairstyle was?”
I have to remind myself that I was there at the time. I was fully capable of seeing who I was, how I dressed, and how I parted my hair. (Yes, I once had sufficient hair to part. Now, it is merely departed.) But the point is that I failed to see.
Why is it so hard to see ourselves?
And when we do, why is is so difficult to make a change?
As you look around today and see things that need to be done and people who need you, take a look in the mirror. But don’t look away until you genuinely see yourself. For, when you see yourself, you are uniquely equipped to truly see others.
Fear is not the enemy. Paralysis is the enemy. – Seth Godin
Treat different people differently. Anything else is a compromise. — Seth Godin
Men and women who live Wholeheartedly do indeed DIG Deep . . . When they’re exhausted and overwhelmed, they get
Deliberate in their thoughts and behaviors, through prayer, mediation, or simply setting their intentions;
Inspired to make new and different choices;
Going. They take action.
— Brene Brown, The Gifts of Imperfection