Pain can rob us of movement. Pain can convince us that we must remain where we are — curled in a position that only temporarily dulls the sharp attacks. Yet when we move because others need us, the pain melts away. Pain? Find someone who needs you and move. — Joey Cope DI LOGO

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As we walk our daily path, we see others — some strangers and some dear friends — who make choices that make no sense. How would our lives and relationships be changed if we first asked “What more do I need to know to better understand?” – Joey Cope DI LOGO

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Precious anxiety. Occasionally, we run so hard from the unknown that we leave the tried, the treasured, and the trustworthy we know behind. We have developed a precious anxiety that steals our lives. Linger a while. If you must run, run toward what you know brings good to you and others. – Joey CopeDI LOGO

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Rushing By

rip tides of the soul

There is a moment almost every day when I pause. Calm is about me. My mind is clear. And then, suddenly, but not without warning, I am pushed into the busy current of life and I see so much rushing by. Most often my urge to join that stream of action propels me forward in my life’s plan. But sometimes, whether from panic or a realization of how little energy reserve is available, I’m simply pulled out and away, another victim of a rip tide.

I know full well what I should do. Not unlike the strategies of a swimmer facing the strong fingers of an ocean’s rip tide, I should keep my head, check my bearings, and move in parallel with the path of intention I was suddenly snatched from. At some point, I will leave the influence of those things rushing by and be able to focus on where I should be and what I should be doing.

Too often these emotional and practical rip tides of the soul tear us away from what we know and what nurtures us in such a violent way that we lose hope of ever finding our way back. When those times come, when we feel ourselves pulled into the boiling sea of worry, anxiety, and busyness, we should take a momentary detour to realign ourselves with the shoreline where we can stand and navigate freely.

And, when our personal will and resolve are spent, we should take the hands of those who reach out to pull us to safety . . . if, for no other reason, to deepen our opportunity to be the one reaching out tomorrow.

Justice isn’t what you may think it is — at least not in today’s political environment. We want justice to be about others and goodness and all those other high values. While political leaders are trying to package themselves as champions of justice, it is, for the most part, only a portion of their sales pitch. If you’re following someone who tries to convince you that improving his or her position in life is going to benefit you, you’re following the wrong person. The true leader doesn’t complain about his or her own plight, but instead steps aside to address the challenges of the many. DI LOGO

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